Posts Tagged ‘Safety’

The Coffee Klatch – an oasis for parents of children with disabilities

Wednesday, May 4th, 2011

The Coffee Klatch  is the social networking version of  sharing a cup of coffee with a good friend.  Tailored to  parents of special needs children,  The Coffee Klatch doesn’t limit topics to one diagnosis, one advocacy issue or one type of ability.  Perhaps its very eclecticism is what makes The Coffee Klatch  so appealing to parents. After all, our kids typically don’t  have only  an autism diagnosis; they also have concomitant medical issues – from ADHD to Down’s Syndrome to epilepsy to Tourette’s Syndrome to Sensory Processing Disorders to many, many others. 

 The Coffee Klatch provides an  engaging and non-threatening community. Marianne Russo, creator and lead moderator of the Coffee Klatch, is highly sensitive to the fact that parents have different levels of advocacy training, differing views about disabilities, and different needs for information. All moderators are volunteers and are parents of children with special needs.

The Coffee Klatch offers  Tweetchats  four mornings  per week, and blog talk radio shows two nights per week.  Guests include award winning authors, expert psychiatrists, psychologists, physicians, advocates and internationally renowned children’s foundations.  Parents are encouraged to ask questions from these highly qualified professionals from the comfort of their own living rooms. Blogtalks are archived on The Coffee Klatch’s website in case parents miss a session. Some of the interviewees include:

  • Temple Grandin, renowned autism self-advocate
  • Dr. Susan Swedo, principal investigator and Chief of the Pediatrics & Developmental Neuroscience Branch at the National Institute of Mental Health
  • Dr. Allen Francis, former chair for the DSM-IV Task Force
  • Denis Goldberg, Special Education Advisor
  • Carol Kranowitz, author of the “The Out-of-Sync Child” and Joye Newman, founder of Kids Moving Company; Carol and Joye co-authored the bestselling “Growing an In-Sync Child”
  • Dr. Russell Barkley, ADHD expert and thought-leader
  • Wayne Lindholm, President of the Down’s Syndrome Foundation
  • Areva Martin, attorney and author of “The Everyday Advocate”
  • Dennis Debbault, the leading global voice in autism training for law enforcement and emergency responders
  • Amalia Starr, independent living coach
  • Dr. Valerie Hu, a Biochemistry and Molecular Biology Professor at George Washington University, providing ground-breaking research on autism sub-types
  • Doug Riggs of the Missouri Planning Council for Developmental Disabilities and advocate against unlawful restraint and seclusion.
  • John Elder Robison, autism self-advocate and author of “Look Me in the Eye”
  • Dr. Russell Hyken,  Child Psychologist and Educational Consultant

For more information, please visit The Coffee Klatch’s new website and a calendar of upcoming events at www.TheCoffeeKlatch.com(Note from Mae: I liked the site so much I begged Marianne to allow me to be a moderator.  I hope you can join us. I’d love to meet you on one of the chats someday!)

 

How one school district is drafting a policy against unlawful restraint and seclusion

Sunday, February 20th, 2011

We’ve heard the horror stories – Practices of using restraints and seclusion (R&S) in schools have humiliated, physically harmed, or even caused the deaths of  children.  Yet many schools use R&S routinely as a method to get troublesome kids, even those as young as five years old,  out of the classroom. Children on the autism spectrum are particularly vulnerable to this type of treatment.  Because they do not display physical signs of their disabilities, they are often perceived as being non-compliant, lazy or just plain ‘difficult.’ 

For Missouri, the path to fixing the problem started with one courageous mom’s outrage against the treatment of her young son. Her story caught the attention of the media, and soon other families soon came forward and began sharing their experiences. (See testimonies from the GAO on Restraint &  Seclusion at http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d09719t.pdf and more at   http://nomoseclusion.blogspot.com). Not long after that, the issue was brought to the Missouri Congress.  Legislators listened, and a bill was passed in 2010 mandating public schools to develop rules against unlawful restraint and seclusion. (The Act: http://www.moga.mo.gov/statutes/c100-199/1600000263.htm ).

But there was a big gap between mandating a policy and developing one. Some parents  wanted restraints and seclusion banned under all circumstances. Other parents insisted that some R&S  practices should stay in place, because they were terrified that their children would hurt themselves or others.  School districts were concerned that eliminating restraints and ‘time out’ rooms would disrupt class routines and upset and/or endanger other students when a child acted out. 

So, a committee was  formed to draft  the state’s Department of Elementary and Secondary Education’s rules and guidelines, beginning with definitions: What is restraint? What are acceptable/non-acceptable forms of restraint? There are a number of ways schools had restrained children in the past - medically (drugs), physically and mechanically. Drugs were not allowed to be administered. Prone and face-down restraints were particularly singled out as  harmful, and were banned. Mechanical restraints were defined as anything using straps, including clothing (one school practiced strapping children to their chairs by putting their coats on backward and zipping them up behind the backs of their chair), and were also controlled.  The situations where restraint and seclusion could be used also needed to be defined. What constitutes an emergency situation and how long could seclusion be used? For example, under the new policy, seclusion could not last longer than the time it took for the police to arrive.  Parents had to agree in writing to the use of any R&S in the IEP.

Then, the policy had to be adopted by each school district, and districts were called upon to develop their own guidelines based upon what the state had developed. In our area, The St. Louis Special School District (SSD),  is one of the few separate special education school districts in the nation.  Our local districts contract SSD to provide services, so SSD is also one of the largest special education providers in the US, providing services to over 25,000 students.   Thus, a new committee of educators and parents was formed to develop district policy.

Some of the proposed policy elements were unanimously accepted; for others, the district wouldn’t budge. Accountability, for one.  What are the consequences of an educator not following policy?There would be no separate accountability other than the district’s own code of conduct and performance standards. What about prevention? Again, the district believed that the preventative measures via behavioral interventions were sufficient to stop most disruption from escalating to the point where restraint and seclusion would be necessary. (BTW, I don’t agree with either of these. Violators should be punished, and we have a loooooong way to go before we eliminate years and years of repeated failure that causes some children’s behavior to escalate into violence.)

At last, a draft was formed and is waiting feedback from the community. It is far from perfect, but it is a good start. The draft: http://www.ssdmo.org/about_us/news_releases/SSD%20Website%201.25.11%20JGGA%20.pdf

To hear more about the path to policy,  please join me on TheCoffeeKlatch  tonight, (Sunday, Feb 20) at  9pm est/8csst on Blog Talk Radio with my guest Douglas Riggs, the Chairperson for the Missouri Planning Council for Developmental Disabilities Policy Committee. Doug is the father of a child with an intellectual disability and a committee member for the St. Louis School District’s Restraint and Seclusion task force.  http://alturl.com/2c7b

Fire Drills

Saturday, April 11th, 2009

When my son was in first grade, he refused to go to school one day because he knew that there would be a fire drill.  I finally got Connor into the building, but he was clearly terrified.  When I picked him up that afternoon, I asked him how his day went, and he calmly told me, “My teacher ’splained it to me, Mom. A drill is just PRACTICE!” In other words, my son hadn’t known the difference between a drill and an actual event.  (more…)

Safety for Children on the Autism Spectrum

Friday, March 13th, 2009

Keeping children with autism safe is a difficult, but not insurmountable challenge, which is why Autism is Not the Boss is issuing a call to all parents to supply tips and success stories for how to teach safety skills.  As thought starters, please check out our blogs on elopement issues, home safety drills and ’stranger danger.’ 

For more on this topic, please also check out Dennis Debbaudt’s Autism Risk and Safety Management website at http://www.autismriskmanagement.com/. With over ten years of experience presenting autism related law enforcement training sessions, Dennis’s training materials are in use by law enforcement agencies in the U.S., Canada and United Kingdom.

Elopement

My son reacts to certain stimuli like a car alarm in a thunderstorm.  Given the right trigger, he will take off running in full panic mode, usually straight into a busy street, and he will not stop, nor pause, nor look at anything nor at anyone while he is in flight.  The official term for this type of behavior is ‘elopement,’ and it seems to be triggered by some type of sensory overload. It was much worse when Connor was younger, and other than hyper-vigilance on my part, there wasn’t much I could do about it. 

But Connor still runs, and now he’s gotten so fast that it’s difficult to catch him.  After one too many jaunts into traffic, I was determined to do something about it. I grabbed my fleeing son and took him to a running track adjacent to the school, where I told him firmly, “You can run here, but not in the street. Now run! ” And he did, for three laps until whatever was bothering him worked his way out. I ran, too, fueled by adrenaline from my near miss with a semi during the rescue.

We also went over rules.  Connor can’t help his flight response, but he did acknowlege that when I yell  a single “STOP” he’ll do his best to pause until I could reach him.  He also agreed to run toward a playground instead of a street or parking lot. Finally, we are trying to mitigate Connor’s urge to flee by encouraging deep breathing and other self-calming strategies.

 

Stranger Danger

Stranger Danger isn’t an issue for us as my son uses the “Don’t Talk to Strangers” rule completely and without exception!  We’ve had to have a few talks about why it is both appropriate and important to talk to police officers and firemen.

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